 
The start of a new school year is always filled with anticipation and change. As we reached the end of our first month back, our new Senior Prefect team, fresh from receiving their robes last week, led their very first whole-school assembly with Head of Sixth Form, Mr Pietersen.
Reflecting on first days at school, Mr Pietersen spoke about how September often brings flux, from moving to new classes or subjects to joining Trinity for the first time. Staff had shared photographs from their own first days at school, which turned into something of a game of ‘Guess Who?’ on the big screen, with words ranging from “apprehensive” to “excited” capturing the very mixed emotions that first days often bring.
Our Senior Prefects then gave their own honest reflections:
Beni remembered smiling so much in her first days at Trinity that her cheeks actually ached: “It was exhausting and exciting in equal measure. You’re suddenly surrounded by so many new faces, and while you don’t remember everyone’s name straight away, some of those people you happen to sit next to go on to become your closest friends. My advice to anyone new would be to trust that the friendships will come naturally — and don’t forget to smile.”
Joel told the story of getting lost on the way to Geography, only to be helped out by an older student after striking up an unlikely conversation: “What started as him asking me if I was Ghanaian turned into a tour of the school and a debate about whether Nigeria or Ghana has the best jollof rice. That small kindness completely changed my day. Making someone feel welcome doesn’t take much — a few words, a small gesture, even a smile can go a long way.”
Fatima spoke about the nerves of starting somewhere new, but also the opportunities it brings: “I thought it would take forever to get to know people, but I quickly realised you just need to throw yourself into things. If I could give my younger self some advice it would be to try new things with confidence — no one really cares if you’re the best, what matters is the effort and energy you bring.”
Jacob looked back on his first day eight years ago: “I walked through the gates in an oversized blazer and trousers that were far too long, not knowing a single person. Now, I can honestly say the opposite is true. I’ve made friends for life, built relationships with teachers I value, and found my place in the Trinity community. My advice is to keep seeking new friendships and to nurture the ones you already have, even when exams get busy — and to treasure the time you have left here.”
Mr Pietersen closed by encouraging students to embrace opportunities, nurture friendships and remember that even the smallest acts of kindness can make a lasting impact.
With thanks to the Senior Prefects for sharing their stories, advice and photos.
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